Often times, involving in a relationship
can be very stressful mostly if both partners are from different part of the
world. The aura of loneliness is sometimes overwhelming when one of them are
busy doing their jobs or activities. Fortunately, millennials as of today are
surrounded with technologies that can help them socialize to people all around
the world.
Having a relationship is not easy as
one-two-three when the distance is great. Talking about long distance
relationship, many couple use to give up their mutual affection because of some
reasons. Most millenials are involve in this kind of situation because of needs
of passion and comfort. Well in the end, it is a win or lose situation if they
deal with it superficially.
Basic relationship rules
When a couple is in a relationship, some of
them intend to set rules when they are apart from each other. But not all
couples are like this. Instead of doing their own stuff, they manage to stay in
their safe zone that is away from temptations and leisure that will ruin their
relationship. The most common rules in a relationship are:
1.
Don’t cheat
Cheating is one of the reason why most of
serious relationship fail. Cheating is not a coincidence anyway, it is an
option which an individual should decide if he or she is going to dump his or
her relationship. Even in marriage, cheating is forbidden.
2.
Communicate Often
Communication is one or the most important
thing to have a successful relationship. Even the slightest miscommunication
can turn a good relationship into a miserable emotion. Consistent communication will give the couple
a consistent bond between each other.
3.
Trust
Without trust, relationship is nothing but
just hear- and- say. Trust is one of the biggest foundation of a relationship
aside from “love”.
4.
Love
The foundation of all things great is love.
Even in an establishment, love is considered “a passion on something”. Love is
the most sensual thing that makes our world beautiful.
How about long distance relationship (LDR)?
Over the centuries, couple found out that
distance is not a hindrance to make a relationship successful. By the use of
modern technologies and gadgets, distance is not an issue anymore. There are a
lot of ways how to maintain a good relationship and besides, there are massive
numbers of people who intend to have faith in success of a long distance
relationship. In this situation, both couple should be aware of what is
happening on both of them. So here are some things to do when you are in an LDR.
Be bold and open
Being bold and honest is not a mistake. It
proves that a person is matured enough to handle him or herself in a situation
when great distance is in the air. Just a realization, being honest can’t kill
you if you’re in a relationship.
Be positive always
Problems and personal issues are not
included in your goals as a couple. Even in long distance relationship, the
presence of both couple must be always active and persistent. Problems are
normal and as a mature person, considerable attitude and an understanding
personality should always be there for better results.
Prioritize you relationship
Long distance relationship is as sensitive
as a thin glass. Even the distance is great, it is possible to make your
partner at ease and less stress. How would you manage this? It is not simple
but you must show concern and intimacy on your partner. Long distance
relationship is no different from other relationship accept its distance.
Build each other’s trust
As mentioned in basic rules of relationship,
trust is somewhat somehow, a ones in a lifetime opportunity. Once you break it,
fixing it would be a very difficult process. Building trust is like building a
foundation of a building. You have to strengthen the very foundation of its
foundation, the roots of its roots – this means basic of the basics on how to
earn trust.
Showing compliments and faithfulness
There are some words that’s flying in a
family conversation about how to deal with your partner. Long distance
relationship is no big difference from a normal one when it comes to
compliments and faithfulness. It is not about the “distance” but the
“personality” of both of you. Compliment must be sincere and heartwarming.
Always make your partner happy as you want also for yourself.
Have a strong drive
Drive is not literally “drive”- drive the
car. It is an urge or the passion to do a certain thing with great
perseverance. This is simply “do what you have to do in a proper manner.” In
order for both of you to be together, both should have an enormous drive to
break the barrier of distance. Always remember, if you do nothing then progress
is also distant.
The success of a long distance relationship
Long distance relationship’s success
depends on both partners. It just like a normal relationship that both must
show affection to make it successful. Although the distance is there, patience
is the thing that you have to remember. Some advice; organize yourself and your
time to be productive and inspired as always. Don’t be affected by gossips without
any proof. Over thinking cannot help but a great positivity. As mentioned
above, couples should develop trust as its foundation but the strongest
foundation of it or in any relationship, is love.
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